>> Men and women having an affair, essentially a large
The gender expert Liu Li children
The Japanese said: "An affair is a man character", "affair in line with the instinct of men", "the ready-made meals delivered to your home do not eat, is a man of shame", as men have the animal instinct, and forget a woman. In fact, the times have changed, in the past, an affair is the prerogative of the man, but the Japanese affair, the gender difference has been greatly reduced. A survey shows that affair experience accounted for 22% of married men and women, that is, one in five people in the affair happened. However, the results of the investigation of the affair man is obviously a bit unreliable, like Yamamoto would often say: "more than half of the men around me, have had an affair experience!" And even the same value, the nature of men and women having an affair or very different from it!
Like asked life wants to several people in an affair? "The woman answered an average of five or six people, an average of up to 60 men, that is, as long as the woman sent home, the man is probably the generosity of the majorityregardless of whether the woman is like. Man for the explanation that they are prone affair very much like a man based on a biological point of view, want four leave their own genes, middle-aged man in the pub will Cheers shouting "descendants of prosperity, long live!"; Woman has to find good man to leave a good sons of animal instinct.
Therefore from ethology view, the man is the pursuit of quantity, while the woman is the pursuit of quality from the very beginning, therefore affair desire very different people. Some men are almost as long as the woman will be shot, while many women did not understand, can not help but want to ask: "Is anyone can it?" However, this energetic man, recently in Japan has become increasingly less.
Men want sexual intercourse how many times or object amount to strengthen the self-confidence; and women rarely needed by an affair to raise self-esteem. And the woman will face the problems of pregnancy, affair to bear the risk than men, so it will not easily an affair. Men having affairs are every field for the play mostly short-term, many men are very proudly said: "just leave." Perhaps because of this, many wives of her husband's affair, that so long as one the fanatical period will forget him eventually or Back to their side. Woman having an affair is to a considerable amount of time, and is determined to occur only after a great struggle, Once affair, are even heart with pay to the overlying water to recovery will be very difficult.
Man having an affair is often incidental, even if the wife can make their own meet, there will be an affair; many women is because her husband is unable to meet their own and will seek to make up for having an affair with who. However, the month, said: "This is just for the meet explanation! Affair sometimes do not meet unsatisfied, but encounter occurs!" This is probably the right, so to be called "an affair"! Month saying or woman, a woman is looking forward to an affair is doomed, it can not be avoided, and not need it!
